Not trying to back Taylor up, but honestly it's not fun to be bullied. And its not OK. It probably does change things as you get older. I'd rather be the person bullied than the bitches calling people names like that. I was bullied in middle school - and turned out to be one of the most successful in my graduating class - in terms of education, job, personal life, overall wellbeing.
A bit OT, but I actually knew a few girls at work who were tall and overweight, carried it really well, and totally saved my skinny ass when bigger autistic kids got out of control. It's the only time in my life that I remember looking at a really big girl like, "Damn. Wish i could do that."
I think it's the pinched nose/small eyes/super arched brows combined with her curly hair. When she first came out on the scene, I thought she was one of the most facially unattractive singers out there. Now that she has gained weight, that facial unattractiveness has returned.I don't really see the rat comparison but maybe they called her that because she acted like one or treated people badly, I was not there so I don't know.
And for the record I was a bully but I was never one to call people dumb names etc. I was a much better bully than that
Oh, I didn't think you were! Just musing. I don't aspire to it either (who here does?) but I think tall chubby women who give off the "I Could Fuck Your Shit" look better than small chubby women who look like the Short Fat Henchmen in some cartoon.I just mean that that particular aesthetic is nothing that I'd ever aspire to (or even be okay with) looking like.
Not trying to back Taylor up, but honestly it's not fun to be bullied. And its not OK. It probably does change things as you get older. I
These are totally compatible and it actually makes a lot of sense. When you talk to bullies, they tend to see themselves as the victims fighting back, not as aggressors without a cause (although I don't make any claims to know what your reasoning is, FT). Normally people interpret neutral social signals (someone making accidental eye contact) as neutral ("maybe she likes my makeup, or is looking at something behind me"), but bullies tend to interpret neutral signals as hostile, and react accordingly ("she's giving me the stinkeye because she's been talking shit, I'm gonna start a rumor that'll make everyone hate her because she deserves it").But Taylor is known to be a big bully too.
"Bad Blood", "Mean", "Dear John"...When you're the one writing the songs, you're never the bad guy...
She's gained so much weight that there are rumours she's had a boob job...I almost feel bad for her
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I think it's the pinched nose/small eyes/super arched brows combined with her curly hair. When she first came out on the scene, I thought she was one of the most facially unattractive singers out there. Now that she has gained weight, that facial unattractiveness has returned.
She's gained so much weight that there are rumours she's had a boob job...I almost feel bad for her
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These photos in particular haunt me on a particular level because this is what we - tall girls with this general shape - look like when we let ourselves go. I want to grab her and shake her and give her some cocaine or something. It doesn't take much work to get out of this, which is the worst part - you literally only need to lose 10 or 20 pounds to look decent at this point, but she just...chooses not to?
Yeah, I don't get it. Fair enough if she doesn't want to look super skinny, but at least lose the belly? Why would she want that?These photos in particular haunt me on a particular level because this is what we - tall girls with this general shape - look like when we let ourselves go. I want to grab her and shake her and give her some cocaine or something. It doesn't take much work to get out of this, which is the worst part - you literally only need to lose 10 or 20 pounds to look decent at this point, but she just...chooses not to?