One of them also disrespected my family and then told me not to be angry about it because he was planning to give me a car.
Shouldn´t suprise me though as some people really think that money allows everything and in many, many situations that is true unfortunately.
I also never watched out for a rich guy, but these days my boyfriend - who had zero money when we met
- has made something out of himself and gets paid very well and I have to admit that I like that. Its not mainly cause I can shop or whatever, cause I usually don´t take his money as I earn my own and I`m also more like SilentNight said and think that I don´t necessarily need a man at all
, buuuuut: It made him even more attractive to me, that he became a pro in what he does and is passionate about his goals and I would prefer a successful guy who has interesting ideas, is well educated and knows how to live to a beautiful one who needs an hour for his damn hair but doesn´t get anything done
But I think its slightly different to choose a man who has character and is intelligent compared to choose one who has tons of money but nevertheless is a bland asshole. I guess this is the point about the social power that was already mentioned. A guy who is smart has more power.
That is why I think that some models who marry guys like David Bowie are
maybe not doing it only because of the money but because they are interesting and charismatic, they did something that really has value and their talent makes them attractive to me, not their money.
I guess it depends on the personal situation of a woman. I would say that I am well educated myself and have some skills and possibilities to make it through on my own plus I don´t need that much money as I also don´t value material things that much - so I don´t necessarily need a man who pays for me. Nevertheless I am also not the kind of girl who would never allow a man to pay if he wants. Its ok for a while if he helps me out and maybe I can help him as well..for me, a relationship is also about supporting each other with the goals you have in life and how you do it depends on the situation and sometimes money is involved of course. Main thing for me would be that a man has something that is interesting for me, no matter what he looks like, no matter how much cash he has. Its more about what he does, if he is inspiring. I don´t want to say that looks and money have no influence, but I guess its more the combination of everything and there is no focus on one special factor. To sum it up: I want a man I can have interesting conversations with, a guy who pushes me and motivates me to do what I have to do and I can do the same for him.
Though if you´re a young model for example and you don´t know yet if you earn enough for the rest of your life I would imagine that some think about what to do afterwards. Cause usually you can´t model forever. Its like AB said: Your time is limited in many ways. You´ll lose your looks and then also your income if you didn´t make it to the top and earned millions and its good to have a plan for the time after your career. Some maybe learn something else next to their job, some just take it easy and others might search for a rich guy...
Its a topic with many sides.